Resources are not neutral. Wherever the money comes from, that is where the relationships grow from.
Advertising shapes a place in its own image; traffic brings a culture of its own.
Giving, too, brings expectation, reciprocation, gratitude, visibility, and one round of persuasion after another. (And the reverse of all that: disappointment, silence, resentment, neglect, and one round of discouragement after another.)
So Lezismore cannot easily survive by looking like an ordinary donation page.
There is anonymity here, and the erotic; there is coming close, misreading, pulling back, and recognizing again.
There are also things that cannot be brought into the light and traded for approval.
So we keep looking for a way to take on water — one that must keep this ecospace alive, while pushing it as little as possible toward pleasing the source.